We would have learnt about many civilizations in the race of mankind. In all the civilizations we had one common word “KADHAL” , the word and the purity of the meaning is beautiful in Tamil than in any other language. LOVE a beautiful word, only word shared by many religions, and hope would share the same feeling for the upcoming religions too.
As decades passed this (Avanum Nokinal Avalum Nokinal) love has touched many horizons and passed new dimensions.
Now mankind has found another beautiful yet confusing word called CRUSH. I hope almost everyone would have known this word. The dictionary meaning says “a strong feeling of love but not long lasting” and the dictionary meaning of love also says the same without giving respect to time.
A person will surely get into confusion of LOVE AND CRUSH, the two beautiful words of mankind with respect to its meaning and feeling. Now love and crush are the two distinct and alike inventions, invented for the sake of mankind. When asked about others about their opinion about these two confusing yet beautiful words.
The opinions were great and different answers but some find it difficulty in answering these questions perhaps they would have thought I am not the right person to share their opinions. Now to list the different opinions
Opinion ! : Crush is due to the attraction of opposite genders’ physical features and love is a attraction of hearts which has got greater depth in relationship.
Opinion !! : Crush is referred to as liking someone and it may and it’ll vary with time and person, loving someone for their unique character will be a LOVE.
Opinion !!! : Crush is loving someone with a reason and love makes you feel the pain and pleasure subsequently and with no reasons.
Opinion !V : Crush is never expressed love and the corollary is not applicable.
Opinion V : Crush is all about the lust and its nature, Love is the affection for one another.
Hmm…that seems everyone have got their own opinions, even I do. I would say I don’t believe in the crush thing. Based on the opinions, you could have got crush with almost everyone even with some famous celebrities like Katrina Kaif, Aishwarya Rai even after becoming Aishwarya Rai Bachchan and so on.
As they say opinion always differs with person and time, I really got confused with these beatutiful words. By the time one thinks that he\she is in love with the other, it sadly turns into a so called crush even vice versa happens at times. The situations are worse in both the cases.
But I believe in love, a matured love which understands feelings more than words, still I’m immature.
These two beautiful words are well spoken among every single and committed fellow but not with married ones’. Hope there would be no place for crush with the married people and wishing the same.
I like to say “Fall in love, never chase the love”. Because IT (LOVE) happens in everyone’s life, you have to get that noticed and act accordingly.
Beautiful things cannot be left as such when it being misused or misunderstood, Just as these two beautiful words
3 comments:
gethu da..but edhuku suddena ipo love and crush pathi lam brie panra???/:)..any ways u have said instead f chasing it u hav told t fall in it..but first feel it machi..then cn fall in it...chase ur dreams..feel and fall in love.:)
sry i dint know tat yo asked me d diff between these words to post here...tough luck tat my opinion dint come up right here!!
Huh..!! im totally confused of wat u wrote... coudln get wat u wer comina say :)
But 1 thing almost every1 r aware of crush n love :) Age differs in major..
D thing s tat many pretend t:)
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